I found this guy on a dating site and he is really sweet and cute. We shared pictures of each other, I sent him my real pics, but I told him, I lived in UK , now he insists on visiting me, he lives in America and he already bought flight tickets, the flight is after two months.
The problem is , I am not from UK, I lied.. I am from Egypt and I am a Muslim, I have heard he hates Muslim people, so I had to lie. I also lied and told him my name was "Anna" . I really really love this guy, I know I have to tell him the truth, will he forgive me and still love me?
He said I look beautiful and that he is attracted to my personality.
Someone please help
- He will love you.Vote A
- He will hate you.Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
Tell him as soon as possible! He might be able to cancel his flight (which will save him a lot of money) and make him less angry. Don't be overly dramatic and just tell him you're muslim and not all muslims are terrorists et cetera... Talk to him and be HONEST, you haven't told him really big lies about yourself. He got to know you and he knows how you look. He will still be attracted to you IF he believes you when you tell him the truth. He can be upset by the fact that you lied to him, but he'll hopefully understand when you explain your reasons.3
Most Helpful Girl
First off, tell him today that you don't live in the UK so the poor sap can cancel them (although you gotta be pretty naive to book tickets to another country to visit your beau that you've never met in real life and you haven't discussed the visit with).
Secondly, tell him the whole truth. I highly doubt he will want to be with you and that's totally understandable. If you can lie so easily to him about those important facts then what else could you lie about? You have already shattered the trust and not having a proper relationship I find it highly unlikely that you will be able to get that back... but hey, you could try. No harm in trying... but seriously... tell him today.0