If you go on a date with a girl, and she is really nervous, quiet and shy kind of girl who needs at least 2 dates to open up with you, would you consider it a deal breaker?
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Most Helpful Guy
No and Yes.
Would it mean I can't like her? Not at all. But in the dating world you expect very clear signals for going on a second date or pursuing anything beyond the first.
So essentially, as a guy I'm used to getting the hints that I can take it a little further and typically rounding a first date off with a kiss and in the event there's not a kiss, then actually having settled on there being (not the date) a second date.
So ultimately: Her being too shy to show her interest would be a dealbreaker since I would take it as disinterest.
On another note being interesting enough for someone to invest their time in without showing them who you are? Must be a pretty girl.0