Would it mean I can't like her? Not at all. But in the dating world you expect very clear signals for going on a second date or pursuing anything beyond the first. So essentially, as a guy I'm used to getting the hints that I can take it a little further and typically rounding a first date off with a kiss and in the event there's not a kiss, then actually having settled on there being (not the date) a second date.
So ultimately: Her being too shy to show her interest would be a dealbreaker since I would take it as disinterest. On another note being interesting enough for someone to invest their time in without showing them who you are? Must be a pretty girl.
It is for me, I prefer someone who's more relaxed and confident socially. On a date like that, I'd feel like she's not interested and I'm wasting time trying to find things to talk about so we can connect.
No I like shy girls. The problem is if you're too shy you might come off as bitchy, like if I'm trying to talk to you and you're not answering me I'm going to think that you're not interested. So as long as the guy knows you're interested and just shy you should be OK, at least with a guy like me Who likes shy girls
It wouldn't be a deal breaker but it would probably not get past the first date as I'd be shy, nervous and quiet myself so there'd be awkward silence. I would also take her shyness (unless she told me she was) as uninterested in me. Guys go through these same feelings but we're "expected" not to or ignore them which is really unfair.
Whenever I'm feeling insecure about something I always just blurt it out. So I'll be like, "I suck at dates I have no idea what to do" and she'll usually just laugh and end up feeling more comfortable. You should just say, "I'm shy". Honesty is the biggest aphrodisiac. Well, I'm off to take a shit now. Good luck.
If I know that she is deal shy or if I realize it on a blind date then I'll probably ask for another one. How every it would be easier and cheaper to just make a hangout date with her till she got to open up.
id say no somtimes it takes longer. people get nervous. but again it depends on how she communicated. if she made it seem like she wasn't havin a good time or seem like she wast intl it at all... cud go qnother way.
Wouldn't be a deal breaker but yes could be quite off putting if she is too nervous and we're not able to have any fun conversation. But sometimes nervousness can be quite cute if she admits that she is just nervous
I'd think she's just not into me. I don't need to know on a first date if she was molested by her uncle, but some details about how she lives, what she does, what doe's she do for fun... Cary on a conversation. No one word answers.