I am a 22 or old black woman,
I get cussed out a lot and called a "coon", "house nigg* "& etc ;whenever I do have a young black man contact me and I politely say I'm sorry but I'm not interested.. I do not give my reason, just a simple "im not interested, have a good day". That still does not stop them from calling me every name in the book though.. They automatically assume that I hate black people just because I prefer to date interracially. I honestly have always preferred to do that. My very first "boyfriend" was white, at the time I really did not see colour. as I grew up I just hung around people that I could actually connect with, and accepted me for my "not black enough vibes"/ways.
So the thing is I prefer to date interracial only when it concerns men, but when it concerns women I don't care.. And I honestly love black women a lot. Does this make me racist or is it just a personal preference?
Has anyone experienced this?
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They are projecting their frustration on you.3