I'm beginning to think I have a problem because only ugly girls like me. Why? isn't that what women want? A good looking guy, who is intelligent, with money, who treats you right? I'm getting ready to order a wife on mail order cause American girls just aren't really interested in me. I even started going to the gym and to get a six pack thinking it would help, and apparently girls only think six packs are "a plus"... all that work for nothing. I'm getting really discouraged right about now.
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Most Helpful Girl
Here's a problem with guys like that: They get an unappealing ego a lot of times which quickly becomes a turn off. Just being hot and having money isn't enough, you still have to be compatible with the person as a whole. Sure, you could treat them right but that doesn't help if you two are completely different, incompatible people.
Would I date someone like this? Only if the personality is there.9
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Most Helpful Guy
Your hyper direct manner of communication is off putting to a large majority of women. It's not how most men behave either, but its much more common and accepted among men. There are a few women like this as well, but they're unusual.
As a side note, there's no way you can have hot girls like you but ugly girls not like you. So in fact, you need to be even more appealing to ugly girls, before you'll start getting hot girls too.
I'd also suggest that if you do nothing, by your mid 30's, women will start setting you up with other women, because marriage minded guys with an income and no baggage are a premium at that point. You have some traits that women like now, but they probably don't feel comfortable/fun with you, and they're not yet ready to settle for a 'good guy' who they dont' feel is all awesome. They're also at their peak attractiveness so they, on average, have tons of options at your age. But that's just some theory for you, i wouldn't suggest you do nothing.
I'd suggest you improve your communication and social skills. They'll help most obviously with dating, but they can help you in management, sales, team leadership etc in your career as well.0