Is this a good sign? I asked him to make me a sandwich and he said yeah! Does this mean I have the upper hand in the relationship? What does it mean when a guy agrees to make you a sandwich?
He said will make me a sandwich?
What Guys Said 19
((Does this mean I have the upper hand in the relationship?
I'm a feminist and a dominant girl. Usually, it's a guy who makes a sexist comment and ask women to make a sandwich for them. Now, I've turned the tables not reading too much into this, but yay for feminists!))
You have the upperhand but not because he made you a sandwich. Him making you a sandwich is just mea s he likes you and wanted to do something nice. Either that or he just likes making sandwiches.
The reason you have the upperhand is because its clear by your mentality that he cares about you more than you care about him and whoever is the least emotionally invested in the relationships usually has the upperhand.0
Means he cares to give you some of his time. Isn't that great?
But if you prefer to be the one making everything... tell him :p1
It means he can cook, or at least make a sandwich. I do most of the cooking in my relationships, because I'm a better cook. (I'm no Dave Ramsey). It also means he cares, wants you around, and is willing to do these little things for you like make sure you don't starve to death! PB&J, or Bologna?1
It means that he said that. Did he make you a sandwich?1
He sounds nice.1
it is called hospitality...1
Really? 😒😒😒😒 it's a sandwich1
Can you make a good sandwich?0
We make sandwiches for each other all the time it doesn't mean either of us are in control0
hard to know he could be fattening you up for the winter or maybe he just being nice or he's scared of you and thought if he said no you would flog him0
He's being nice0
No he was just hungry or hoping to get laid !0
Sandwich hmmm.. i have been bribed by my crush with a biscuit and it didn't took us anywhere lol0
That has nothing to do with having the upper hand. It's him being nice and that's it. I'd be worried to be in a relationship with somebody is so quick to think they have the upper hand on pointless things.0
"Does this mean I have the upper hand in the relationship"
Break up with him. He deserves better than this mindset.0
What Girls Said 8
Why would you want to be in control? It's a relationship, not a job and you're not supposed to be his boss, as he's not supposed to be yours. When your girlfriend asks you to do something for them, you do it (assuming you can) because you love them, as a sign of affection and doing it doesn't mean they're controlling you :/1
Who cares and no it doesn't mean you have the upper hand at all.. just because someone makes you a sandwich doesn't mean it's groundbreaking0
It doesn't mean anything. It's just a fucking sandwich1
It means you asked for a sandwich and he made you one. That's all.0
It means he cares for you, making a sandwich means nothing, looking at your other comments I can see your view about memes about the girl making the man a sandwich but it has nothing to do with being dominant , it was to annoy extreme feminists because of history where males held more status over females. It now means nothing, the only thing it means is he cares for you, he's not sexist. also in my opinion relationships should be about equality not trying to beat each other0
I don't think the sandwich principle really works here..0
It means your boyfriend is a decent person. It doesn't mean you have the upper hand or something.1
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