I haven't dated much so far because I go to an all boys HS and I had to get perfect grades to go to the college I want to go to and that takes a lot of time and effort. Anyway, pretty much everyone I know tells me that I'm very nice, or sweet, or kind, etc. but I always here people complaining that girls never choose to date the nice guy. Is that true or is it just guys making excuses for why they can't get a gf?
Most Helpful Girl
This is a very good question you asked. And i'm sure your going to get tons of replies. But it solely depends on what type of girl you are talking about. But majority of women like nice guys. But a lot of men get confused with what nice consists of. It does not mean agree with her on everything, It does not mean be a doormat, It does not mean have no personality (You have no idea how many "nice guys" i met) that said they were nice yet no women gave them a chance. They were not "nice" they whined a lot about not getting women and had no personality. Yawns... what a bore.
Just be you. You sound great. Be respectful of course and stand your own ground when needed and women will be attracted to you!
Stay happy! :)0
Most Helpful Guy
That's because their definitions of "Nice Guys" is putting pussy on the pedestal and coming off really desperate. Then when girls reject them for that, they're like "I JUST DON'T GET IT! GIRLS ONLY LIKE JERKS!" Sure, in high school a lot of girls do gravitate towards douchebags because they're young and naive. But when they grow up they don't want that shit.1