Recently I've seen some posts here, and some videos on youtube, and apparently guys get turned downed way more than girls and might even dislike appraoching girls. So guys, would you rather the girl approach you?
I think it depends on the guy. Recently I saw a post about a guy who doesn't like to be approached, but I know a lot of my guy friends prefer to be asked instead of being expected to do all the asking.
Yes and I'd love it if a girl approached me. Women don't realize that guys have all the same feelings about approaching as you do. It's unfair that we are expected to ignore them or whatever and always have to make the first move. This is one "expectation" I wish would change from society and woman's beliefs.
Yes I would love that. Because it seems now when you try and talk to a female they just assume you are up to something or just want sex like you just can't be a nice guy. Would make life so much easier.
Guys get turned down way more than girls and might even dislike approaching girls. BINGO!!! I Haven't asked in 4 years, And when I did they were either engaged or married. Or already had a boyfriend or a trainload of kids that I had no part in creating. So I just said **** it.
I don't care either way... but if a girl is interested or attracted to me she should at the very least communicate that to me in a way that will cause me to initiate contact with her. It can be as simple as eye contact and a smile.
Although some men prefer doing he approaching or the "hunt", most men who are looking for something potentially serious will love it when a woman is clear in her intentions or interests; what clearer way than to be the one asking the guy out? You'd be surprised how many men may find you interesting but are too shy, worried about rejection, worried about annoying you with it, or otherwise reluctant to ask you out.
For me personally, having only been in relationships where I was the one continuously taking all the actions, putting in all the effort, and take all initiative right from the very beginning (i. e., approaching to ask them out), every time ended up with me only giving and them only taking in the relationships. Because of that I'm reluctant now; if a woman was to ask me out or take initiative in some form (not counting "hinting" as initiative), that alone would give her some bonus points in my eyes.
Yes, I'm way too shy
I would love it but no matter how much I want it to happen I know it never will. Girls asking guys out is something I've only ever heard be said on the internet. 100% of every couple I have ever met ever was the guy asking the girl out. And I've met a LOT of couples.
That'd make life so much easier, even if I wasn't interested in her I wouldn't be a dick about it. I wouldn't be catty with my guy friends afterwards and be like "OMG, DID YOU SEE THAT? WHAT A CREEP! AMIRITE?"
Im sick that we're in a generation where a girl asks a guy out what the fuck is wrong seriously that's not girls role. Where are your standards girls? why don't you tease a little bit and make HIM follow you oh geez pls help some girls out there ughhh