Yes for various reasons. Shyness. Didn't believe that she really liked me (even though it was obvious looking back). Based on some things I knew about her I wasn't sure she was right for me even though I liked her a lot. Busy life, didn't really have time to pursue it. Plus all the reasons these other guys have stated. They play into it to.
There's always a balancing beam of how much they like you verse how scared they are and how much their ego wants them to play power games (how selfish they are). If they can't squelch that shit, compromise, and be in it when they need to be in it, then it doesn't matter how much they like me.
All the time , I feel they needed to work on themselves. I know they liked me but they had trust issues. I don't need to prove to them I'm a not like their ex-bf. They need to see that in me if they opened up.
Yes, because I am shy. It's actually happened I think three or four times now where I was more than 80% sure they liked me and I still didn't go for it. It's probably the reason why I've never been on a date. I'm hoping they'd ask me first but that's foolish thinking considering I'm a guy.
Unless a girl has specifically told me that she liked me I have absolutely no friggin' idea if she likes me or if she's just playing stupid games or just being "nice" and "friendly"
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