I really love my girlfriend and we have been together for 3 years. One thing however i dont like or really didn't want in a relationship is for my girlfriend to smoke. I kept telling her to stop it and it's not good for her but then she gets "stressed" and goes to smoke. I keep telling her being stressed is not an excuse. It has even gotten to the point where my girlfriend would smoke a ciggarette and even tho it's cold outside i would not let her in my car cause i dont want that smell. I simply don't want to get second hand smoke. Any tips on how i can make her quit? Also am i being very "forcing" towards this? i just want the best for her.
Most Helpful Girl
You can't make her stop unless she wants to. I know how she feels, the more you push her the more harder it is for her to quit. people usually smokes more when they're stressed out. Try buying her vape, it helped me quit last yr, but i was under a lot of stress so i started smoking again. Im going to try to quit again next month, i hope your girlfriend will come to realize that smoking is destroying her life.0
Most Helpful Guy
stress? i grew up in in a family that drank, smoked, and did drugs, was stuck in a trailer filled with beer bottle, beer can, burn holes, and bugs, for a whole year, then, abused by my grandmother for another, learned my brother got mixed up with my ''father's'' side of the family, messed up with a girl i love, watched her life go down hill, see pictures of her and a guy who's already miss treated her in the past and more.0