I met this guy online, through yik yak ironically, and we've been talking for about a month and a half now. We've exchanged pictures, but I haven't sent any full body pictures and I don't carry my weight in my face, so selfies can be "deceiving". I know I should have sent a full body picture from the start, but I'm worried he'll stop talking to me. I not by any means obese, but I'm definitely not size 2. He really wants to meet up, but I'm always making excuses for why I can't. Help?
Most Helpful Guy
LOL see that's why you females shouldn't be doing that. Then y'all wouldn't have this issue. Be upfront at first. Show your body. Let them know you're fat. Then if he still wants you there's nothing to worry about.
Nothing you can do now. Lol. Good luck.2
Most Helpful Girl
This is why for online dating I'm a strong advocate of posting your WORST pictures.
When you display a gorgeous crisp picture, you're setting yourself up to always having to live up to that perfection standard.
DON'T DO THAT.
Having crappy pictures of yourself up means if a guy still likes you, he will know exactly what to expect and he'll be pleasantly surprised to find out you're actually a lot more attractive than your pictures let on.
Let your guy know you're overweight, send him legit full body photos and let him decide.
Don't start a relationship based on false pretences.0