Me and my girlfriend of 2 months got into fight today, she said "I was being a d***". Later that night she hangs out with her ex, she picked him up and they went to friends party smh.
Then a few hours later she post a picture of me and her and says "I'm her better half, her angel on the dark days".
Her ex and her ex was together 2 years, we got together 2 weeks after they broke up.
If if she loves me the way she says then why did she hang out with him.
Most Helpful Girl
She sounds very manipulative. I'm willing to bet she hung out with him to penalize you for being a dick.
Based on what you just shared, she schemes in a way that will ultimately get you hurt and massively disappoint you. How convenient that she decides to visit her ex the night you two get into a fight? -_- Unless she frequently parties with her ex, I believe she probably did that to covertly punish you and teach you a lesson about "being a dick". Personally, I would not tolerate being with someone who punctures my pride as a partner and toys with my feelings to get back at me. That's unhealthy, destructive, and if she keeps it up, she's going to plant resentment and bitterness in your heart that destroys the way you admire her.2
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Most Helpful Guy
This is why I do not believe in remaining in contact with an ex. He was the first person she ran to the moment you two had a fight. Lets be real here, every couple has fights, that is a normal part of any relationship. But, her running straight into the arms of her ex is really bad taste and a huge red flag because they have had an intimate relationship and therefore he is a direct conflict of interest. She hung out with him to show you how easily she can get with another guy, she has history with him, so he is easy to call and hang with, she wants to make you jealous and so on.1