I know this is one of THOSE questions. But I need to clear my head and put it out here.
I feel my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore. He used to text me "I love you" and plenty of heart/kisses emojis all the time. He's definitely cut way down on that or even stopped. I'm not sure anymore.
He also used to want to spend an entire day with me on the weekends. For the last two weekends, he says he has to have family dinners - birthdays and anniversaries etc - so we just meet for a couple hours. The worst was when he didn't tell me that he had dinner plans (obligations) and I expected that we would spend the entire day together. He doesn't seem too upset by it (he would definitely have been more upset a few months ago)
We have been together for 8 months now and I feel this might be what they say about the "honeymoon"/"passionate" period wearing off.
My gut instinct anyway is very often right, and it is now yelling at me that it's more than just over the honeymoon period. It is that he is tired of seeing me and doesn't "love" me anymore.
Any thoughts please?
Most Helpful Guy
If I were you I would test him a little more on it. See if he avoids you when you plan something for both of you.
You may be right?0
Most Helpful Girl
I think it's just the honeymoon phase ending. Try to stay optimistic about the relationship, communicate your continued love for him and observe his actions going forward.1