Me and this girl I was talking to for a month and a half are no longer speaking. I have no idea why but she just stopped texting me one day. I got her something small for valentines day and she seemed like she really liked it. At first it went 3-4days after that not hearing anything from her and finally I texted her and she replied saying she lost her phone and got sick.
Then we texted for a few days and now its been over a week since I have heard from her but I can't get her out of my head. I know a month and a half is a really short time but the best part of my day was when I could talk to her and the best time of the week was when I could see her. We went to movies and out to eat. When we went out to eat she told me things about her past that she even said "I haven't ever told anyone that before." Everything was going absolutely great!
In the last days we were talking she said that I was "good long term boyfriend material" and she "wants a long term relationship" with me and its just that anytime she gets out of a long term relationship her next one is extremely short. . And now we aren't talking after all that. Looking back I think I was a rebound thing but it still hurts me that we aren't even talking anymore.
Any idea of why I am so upset when I shouldn't be and how do I get over her?
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This has happened to all of us at one time or another. I had a guy do something like this and he actually came back a year later telling me how confused he was. Saying she lost her phone and got sick are your typical cop outs. Whatever you do, do not contact her again. My gut tells me there is another guy in the picture, or an ex-boyfriend. Sometimes what happens is that once an old boyfriend hears their talking to a new guy they get jealous and they start sweet talking the girl and before you know it they kick you to the curb and disappear. Its normal to be upset because she said all of this stuff to you only to turn around and disappear. Its really hard I know, I've been there. If she just got out of a long term relationship than this is exactly why she treated you like this. My gut tells me she will pop up all of a sudden. Try not to sweat it and understand that what you are feeling is normal and you will move on and get over her. To be honest the guy who did this to me I really fell hard for and its been 3 years and I still think about him a lot, so if you did have a deep connection with her than you might never actaully forget her. Try to move on by dating other girls and realize there are other girls who you could be.4