I want a "free spirit" type of girl, who loves to express herself, but still believes in monogamy. I'm an adventurous guy, and would love to make her wild fantastic whims a reality, whether it's climbing a mountain, performing for a crowd, or just exploring. She'd need a great sense of humor as well. No drugs or tobacco. Booze is fine in moderation.
She can count the number of partners she's had on one hand. That's a plus.
If she's smart, clever, funny. Plus
If she's ever slept around, ever had a "slutty phase", done weird sex acts (been double teamed, etc), hooked up with a black guy, and has had a lot of partners, she's definitely not wife material. Sluts are fun, but you don't date them.