ok so i'm really gross looking and it really has ruined my life because i can't ever attract boys and i know why obviously it's cause i'm ugly but i was wondering if there were guys that weren't as shallow? that could look past my hideous looks? i know there are probably very few guys that look past looks but i also have a very "personality " in my opinion soo am i just a complete turn off & a fail? by the way i'm 15 even though it syas i'm 20 on my profile and i feel very bad for not having a boyfriend when all of my friends have had dozens of bfs so i'm just wondering if its possible to attract cute guys in any way also i'll attach a photo so you guys can see how ugly i am (ew) and also maybe give advice on how to look at least cute? Here's a shitty pic of me. :
I've made many typos sorry for that i was typing really fast so don't go thinking i can't spell correctly 😅
Being completely straight and honest with you, I actually think you look quite cute. Smiling would just make your pictures look even better :D
I think the biggest issue you have right now is confidence in yourself. You just need to realize that you aren't ugly and that will open up possibilities. You'll realize that you can indeed attract guys, and guys will be attracted to you. If you consider yourself ugly and un-datable, you'll naturally turn down guys, assuming that they would/could never like you.
----- Also, you are 15. I would find it kind of odd if someone had "dozens of boyfriends" by that age. Their relationships must've not lasted long, if they were even relationships haha. Don't worry about other peoples' numbers. Date for yourself when you want to when the moment is right. Date for quality, not for quantity. A boyfriend is not a number -- it is a person you like and want to spend time with and such. At age 15 you are also young. MANY girls don't start dating at age 15 nowadays. Heck, I know some that haven't gotten a date or anything like that and they are 20+.
Though I'm a dude, I haven't had a girlfriend either and I'm 20. As far as I know, I'm not ugly, nor do I have an awful personality. Don't worry about it. Relax, ease into the dating world, and realize you do have a chance.
Ummmmm stop playing into the "I'm not cute enough plan" and start playing for the "I'm super cute and going do my homework and succeed at life because I'm awesome and if a guy misses that, it's HIS problem" team. media.giphy.com/media/BzIsG0j1LLuPm/giphy.gif
I think @dangerDoge sums it up... can't say anything past that. You are average, not ugly af or whatever you kids call it these days. I was going to say that the reason why you don't attract anyone is because YOU don't even attract YOU. don't compare yourself darling. You are you... and YOU are the shit. which ever boy doesn't like you, can bite the big one.
first of all you are not ugly. second of all having a boyfriend is not important at all. i mean i am the same age as my profile says and i have been single all my life and never cared while my freinds were loading chicks. not having a boyfriend means it didn't clicked. nothing to do with beauty. don't feel the pressure on yourself, you are young, enjoy your life. you don't have to try to be in relationship. you will simply run into it.
Everyone has the thought of feeling "ugly" it's just human nature remember that!! You're very young and still have a lot to experience. Remember that looks are subjective... Out of the millions of guys out there, there's going to be millions of cute guys who'd go for you! I think you're damn gorgeous... never question your looks, it's who you are and there's nothing you can change about yourself physically but only mentally and confidence :)
You really are not ugly at all. In fact I'm surprised that you don't have a queue of guys all wanting to take you out. A nice smile would make you absolutely stunning. By the sound of it you maybe lack self confidence and that comes across to others. Any guy who isn't knocked over by your looks is either blind or stupid. Just carry on being who and what you are and it will all come out in the wash XXXXX.
You aren't ugly for one. Two you need to smile more, and three think positively. How you presive yourself is how others do as well. How is your attitude, demeanor, and personality? Yes you can attract guys but you have to change your attitude and personality to attract them. Perhaps your body language too.
❄❄⛄⛄It seems you have serious self esteem issues. Those of your friends who have dozens of bfs are shallow because counting their numbers it looks like they have relationship only to have sex. By the way you are NOT ugly as fuck, you are still better looking than me❄❄⛄⛄
Well it would really help if you stopped fishing for compliments and validating yourself based on others opinions. Figure out why you don't believe you're awesome (it may have nothing to do with your looks) and then fix it. Low self esteem is a crutch. It allows you to feel bad for not fixing your issues instead of actually working hard to fix them. It never goes away until you do. Consider figuring out your worst anxious unreasonable fear and putting yourself in situations where it may happen. UNREASONABLE FEARS ONLY.
You're not ugly you are unhappy. Having an unhappy face will not do great in the dating world. Smile more, Proactive, be confident and wear medium rare rib-eye steaks around your waiste and I guarantee you some action.
You actually aren't ugly. I didn't like the way I looked when I was 15 either. It's an age when we feel awkward. I think you are pretty. I was expecting some serious wildebeest by the way you describe yourself and you need to overcome low self-esteem♡
Honestly just be you and put yourself out there. Dont ve afraid of rejection because you will just miss opportunities. You are just 15. Once high school is over, the dating scene changes and guys looks for other things in girls.