ok so i'm really gross looking and it really has ruined my life because i can't ever attract boys and i know why obviously it's cause i'm ugly but i was wondering if there were guys that weren't as shallow? that could look past my hideous looks? i know there are probably very few guys that look past looks but i also have a very "personality " in my opinion soo am i just a complete turn off & a fail? by the way i'm 15 even though it syas i'm 20 on my profile and i feel very bad for not having a boyfriend when all of my friends have had dozens of bfs so i'm just wondering if its possible to attract cute guys in any way also i'll attach a photo so you guys can see how ugly i am (ew) and also maybe give advice on how to look at least cute? Here's a shitty pic of me. :
Most Helpful Guy
Being completely straight and honest with you, I actually think you look quite cute. Smiling would just make your pictures look even better :D
I think the biggest issue you have right now is confidence in yourself. You just need to realize that you aren't ugly and that will open up possibilities. You'll realize that you can indeed attract guys, and guys will be attracted to you. If you consider yourself ugly and un-datable, you'll naturally turn down guys, assuming that they would/could never like you.
Also, you are 15. I would find it kind of odd if someone had "dozens of boyfriends" by that age. Their relationships must've not lasted long, if they were even relationships haha.
Don't worry about other peoples' numbers. Date for yourself when you want to when the moment is right. Date for quality, not for quantity. A boyfriend is not a number -- it is a person you like and want to spend time with and such.
At age 15 you are also young. MANY girls don't start dating at age 15 nowadays. Heck, I know some that haven't gotten a date or anything like that and they are 20+.
Though I'm a dude, I haven't had a girlfriend either and I'm 20. As far as I know, I'm not ugly, nor do I have an awful personality. Don't worry about it. Relax, ease into the dating world, and realize you do have a chance.
Confidence! You are not ugly. You do not have a crappy personality. You can do it.
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Most Helpful Girl
Ummmmm stop playing into the "I'm not cute enough plan" and start playing for the "I'm super cute and going do my homework and succeed at life because I'm awesome and if a guy misses that, it's HIS problem" team.