Anyways, imagine that there's this girl who you're interested in. She isn't a virgin, but she for whatever reason decided not to have sex again until she's married. Would you continue to pursue her and date her? Or leave her be? Or does it depend on the situation?
Alrighty. Well, this makes me so glad that this is hypothetical.
I knew that I'd be seen as a crazy b*tch if I claimed this. But my friend disagreed, she said that "men like restrained girls. Just say you're one and they'll understand, cause they're supposed to respect you anyways." So we had this "born again virgin" argument. So then I said "okay, let me ask actual guys what they think." Thank you all for proving my point. :)
I dont see the point in waiting until marriage for sex. The only thing that would possibly make it worth it is that I would feel special to know I am the first and only guy she has had sex with, which is rare nowadays. Even then Id be hesitant though.
However if she's already had sex with other guys outside of marriage I see no incentive for why I would want to wait. I wouldn't try to pressure her to change her mind, I would just be like "no thanks" the moment I hear she's a "born again virgin".
What? Fuck that. There's not "born again virgin". If you had sex, you're no longer a virgin, I don't care if now you wanna wait till marriage, you're still not a virgin. I don't play with that bullshit. First of all, I wouldn't wait till marriage for sex. And second, I wouldn't date a girl that had sex with another guy and made me wait years to have sex together. No.
Making me wait till marriage huh, well I respect that idea. Not everyone can pull it off and I do admire someone doing things differently than just following the crowd. However to be honest, Im not sure I would be able to wait but I wouldn't avoid dating her. Matter of fact, I would try to get to know her, makes me curious.
Being not virgin for marriage is depending on both boy and girl Some people waits for marriage (boys and girls) And that's came from respecting to their future wife/husband But maybe someone lost his/her virginity and now he/she changed And maybe they can talk to eachother about that issue
I probably wouldn't stick around. If she was slutty before, she's still that to me.
I don't particularly care if a girl is a virgin or not, but she had to have had limited sexual partners and not given it out to random people. I want to wait (not necessarily 'til marriage) believe it or not. It just seems weird to me that she gave it to some guy (s) and now wants to hold her vagina in such high regard. The logic isn't there on this.
born again virgins? buhaahaha. i doubt most women can pull that off either. its a passion. you fall again. except if she had a shitty first experience.