He knows my past of being involved in the sex industry, so he views everything that has to do with me being naked Infront of someone else as sex work and cheating. But like, it's ART modelling, i pose and peoe draw, there is nothing sexual about it at all. And he is artist too and we have done life drawing TOGETHER. So It pisses me off that he never says anything about other people doing life modelling but if I do it he has big issues with it.
he also had a really ugly fat friend who does burlesque and he used to go watch her all the time (I don't even know why, because she is fucking ugly but I guess he liked her trashy costumes) He would always say that isn't striping when burlesque is actually stripping!! And then when I wanted to take a burlesque class, he suddenly decides that it is stripping!! Ughhhh
Most Helpful Guy
I dont see it as cheating, its art and I assuming you are getting paid for it. Knowing about your history I can see why he has concerns, maybe he is worried you will fall back into that, but if you love him and respect him, you should talk to him, because if you just go do what you want, you are not respecting him, you need to come to some kind of agreement.0
Most Helpful Girl
your boyfriend and the person answering below, sound really immature. in addition its your body. he does not own it boyfriend or not. you are not cheating on him or flirting with others, this is work and the body is art. just bc he has to sexualize it does not mean that is how it exists in the world. honestly his reaction would make me seriously re evaluate my relationship. it sounds like he does not respect the human form and only sees it as dirty. and I'm not sure how his response is not suspicious and disrespectful towards you.
its surprising he took a drawing class and has this attitude. its a shame bodies are treated like dirty deviant things to be ket from the world. if you can appreciate the art of the human form thats great bc a lot of people can not. its a lost skill. I'm considering nude modeling as well. its just traveling around kind of makes it pointless as a job , bc id spend more time getting their than doing it and getting paid.
how much would you be making? how long are the sessions?3