I've been seeing this guy for two months now. Talking for three or so. My issue is that lately he has been so busy and preoccupied that he doesn't show me the attention that he once did. But, he was just as busy back then. So, I had a talk with him. He agreed and apologized and said he will start doing those things again. Needless to say, after having that conversation things are still the same. I'm really ready to move on. But, is it me or is it him? I'm really debating on what to do. Because, at this point I'm almost ready to cut my losses and move on. Am I all in my head like most women? Are is he distancing himself and just not interested as he once was?
Most Helpful Guy
If after the talk he hasn't changed, it's better to move on. You need attention, everyone does. If he's not giving you the amount you need, you can't be with him.
Maybe he's too busy. Maybe he can't figure out how to manage work with relationship. Maybe he's losing interest. I don't know, but what's clear is that you're not getting what you want and need, and it's not something unreasonable what you ask for.
He said he would change, but he hasn't, so it's better to move on.2
Most Helpful Girl
It's the same scenario over and over again. He woo'd you and got ya and now he is comfortable. The thing that most people don't understand is realizing that getting the guy/ girl is half the battle compared to actually keeping the guy/girl. Laziness is not my forte and I expect my man to be the same.2