I know i'm still really young at 17... but lately I've been feeling like I'll be single forever... which i really don't want. Maybe it's because of all the couples i see at school and then realized I've never had a girlfriend because I'm shy. The only reason why I'm so shy is because I've been insulted and disrespected for the majority of my life. I also have to consider that I'm not really attractive like people say i am... Its been so tough lately. I've had crushes on about 3-5 girls and couldn't even talk to most of them... it makes me mad because now I'll never know what some of those girls thought of me. The girl i like now will probably just end up the same exact way. Anyone else ever felt the same as me?
On top of that, my grades aren't all that great either... probably about average :/
Hopeless, pathetic, stupid, ugly... that's exactly how i feel about myself... to the point where I've been fucking depressed and have had suicidal thoughts... I don't know if i can go on much longer... it hurts man... seriously 😭
Ik girls want a guy that is smart, funny, good looking, and Loving/Caring bbut the only quality i have out of those is caring...
Most Helpful Girl
I know I'm only 14, but as crazy and ridiculous as it sounds, but I get what you mean!
In my grade, most girls have had their first boyfriend and their first kiss but I have not.
I feel like what you're doing is right. Don't just go with anyone to be able to say you have a girlfriend, go with someone whom you truly have feelings for!
The sad thing is, you may feel unwanted now, but you sound like a really sweet guy and I'm most definitely sure some girl will be honored to be your girlfriend! Don't worry, your princess will come around! Good luck!4
Most Helpful Guy
Dude, for one, you look pretty fine actually. At least better than me so you have more chances. And you're playing American handegg so you're bound to find a girl at some point. Don't fret. I'm 20 and haven't had anyone yet so I have legit reasons to believe I won't at all. You still have a lot of potential.
And don't worry about shyness, it can magically pass as it did for me. I was hyper shy 3 years ago - but today I'm not. At least not to that extent.
Best of luck, dude.1