LOL, interesting wording of the question. I have my own theory about that, but it would take way too long for me to explain on here. But basically I think most people use dating sites as hook ups, I don't think people really use them to find a serious relationship. Honestly I know a lot of douche bag guys who use Internet dating sites especially the free ones like plenty of fish, to basically prey on girls who are insecure, or frustrated because they can't find a boyfriend so they just tell them what they want to hear and then you never hear from them again. It's fucked up but people are fucked up.
YES! i am sorry to say this but there are two types of men who go on dating sites below a certain age or as i call it the social age. Above a certain age you get desirable men because lifestyle changes and people work and are busy with friends moving on with being married etc so it is very hard for men above this age range to meet people. But back to this social age and perhaps the age range you are looking at 18 to 24, these guys are either the undesirables or really good looking guys just looking for sex.
Did you look for stud services? Real people work, and are bald, and have hairy chests, fart, burp, and watch TV with 10-30 exta pounds or more. Real people date real people on line. I don't see Victoria's Secret models on online dating sites either. But let's get real, the studs you are looking for are at the gym, not at home browsing the internet, with a bag of chips.
The best guys and women are in relationships more often. They are not all in relationships. Some are between relationships and looking. But there is sort of a turnover in 'studs' or the female equivalent who show up and vanish, while the duds sit there not leaving.
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