Were the feelings I had towards her in vain?

Before me and this girl had sex, I treated her well and bought her ice cream and a plush toy. But she likely was percieving my motives different than what they really were. Thus, her false perceptions likely influenced her feelings during sex. And the feelings she had during sex triggered me to develop feelings towards her.

But if she would of known my intentions and thoughts from the beginning, wouldn't that have altered what happened after, thus ultimately resulting in me never having feelings for her?

So pretty much, my feelings I developed for her was were in vain. :/


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  • you got laid, if you love her stick around if not move on.


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  • Does she have feelings for you? If so whats the problem?

    • She doesn't anymore so I guess it doesn't matter anyways