So I know a girl and i've been getting good vibes from her eye contact, smiles, flriting, etc. she's mentioned around me that she's single, and I've called her a queen and she winked back at me.
Next time I see her I plan on asking her too come with me for a second, and take her somewhere private. I'm gonna say something along the lines of;
"I can't quite figure out if you are just a super smiley girl who's nice to everyone or if there is something more potentially between us... (while smiling/looking in her eyes, I'm gonna grab her hand and pull it between us and say) your a beautiful woman who has the world in your palm (caressing her hand) and you can get any guy you want, are you willing to take a chance with me?"
I'm assuming there will be a door behind us so I may add, or do you just want to walk out that door behind you?
I don't know ladies and guys, wooing or am I setting myself up for failure? (I fear not the rejection, the wondering of 'what if' has had me far more concerned.)
- Go for it!Vote A
- Bad strategy!Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
That.. is... terrible.
You basically took a shit on yourself and are taking a risk being at being seen as creepy.
"I don't know if you like me, you could get any guy you want but go out with me."
Uuuhh, why? What have you done other than crap on yourself and rub her hand? Guys over complicate this too much. Tell her you think she's a beautiful, amazing person and you want to take her out. Simple as that.2
Most Helpful Guy
No, no no no no.
She would love this...
If she's been madly and secretly in love with you for years.
She's not and hasn't been. She's a little interested in you. Don't act like she's the best thing in existence, because that will creep her out. She -knows- you don't know her all that well. So you are NOT head over heels for her. If you're head over heels, its for some fake idea of her in your head, and that won't make her feel flattered, it will make her feel like she's just some object for you to push your ideas on.
Just... ask... her... out.0