My boyfriend has recently come to me about being bi curious. Which is great! I'm so excited for him and I really want him to figure out his true attractions. But, when he came to me, he told me he had a guy interested in him already. I know this guy, we were good friends in high school, and once he got to college, he came out as gay. I'm having a hard time accepting my boyfriend flirting with other people. A few months ago, I found out he was cheating on me with a girl, and I'm scared he'll hide things, again. I didn't care he was physical with another person (I actually get aroused at the thought), but I want him to be honest. I asked him to read their text exchange, but after some pressure, he snapped at me about breaching his privacy. He swears up and down he wants me a part of this experience, though I've insisted I don't have to be. But I feel excluded already, and it has me worried. I want him to be involved with my first experience with a girl, but he hasn't mentioned including me to the guy, yet, after a week of discussion. I just need some advice on how this situation should be handled. I want to do this, but I want us all to be comfortable. And I'm currently not comfortable.
Most Helpful Guy
You need to leave this loser and find a guy that won't cheat.3
Most Helpful Girl
Since you don't trust him, then leave.0