I'm 15 almost 16. He is turning 17. I haven't had my first kiss and neither has he. We have been dating for 2 weeks and everyone is pressuring me to do it. And I see nothing wrong with kissing it's just I don't know. It freaks me out. I mean I want to but I'm so nervous. I'm just afraid people won't like me anymore because I've had my first kiss. Because I've had a lot of people talk to me trying to get my first kiss for bragging rights and that a lot of people like me. I don't want to throw it away and everyone lose interest because I know me and my boyfriend most likely won't last forever and after we break up I don't want to be alone. But I really like my boyfriend and I want to kiss him but I can't. Because all of this. And it just freaks me out. He has been so nice to me and takes me out all the time. Responds really fast and more. I want to but I just don't know. He has also grabbed my thigh, waist and kissed my cheek and neck. Help on kissing? First kiss tips? Should I kiss him or make him wait? Is it stupid to think kissing is such a big deal? Help!!
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Help on kissing?
#1. Kiss him IF you really want to.
#2. Kissing someone won't make you easy. Just think about it that it took you 16 years for only one kiss.
#3. You think other guys won't like you because you had your first kiss? Now tell me, do you want to be loved for what you are or for your virgin lips?
#4. Guys don't care that much. I think you'll pass out your school after two years. Then, nobody would give a single fuck about your statistics. Yeah, some guys value virginity tho, but they're in minority.
#5. Nervousness is bound to happen. After all, it's your first time.
#6. If he's one of them who's nice to you only to get your first kiss, then don't. But I think he deserves it because he seems a nice guy as you described.
First kiss tips?
#1. Don't plan it. It'll make you more nervous. Let it happen automatically.
#2. You will feel so awkward. Don't worry about that if that happened.
#3. Don't expect a perfect kiss. You both are amateur.
#4. You can try wet kiss, but even dry kiss is enough for first timers.
#5. Don't make it so long, nor so short.
Should I kiss him or make him wait?
#1. You can wait as it's just two weeks.
#2. But you both are comfortable so, why waste time?
#3. Personally, I don't like such girls who make me wait so much and play hard to get. Yeah they want to be valued but I deserve my reward and I have my own worth.
Is it stupid to think kissing is such a big deal?
-Of course, NOT! I'm 21 and kissing is still a big deal to me. I find it harder to kiss a girl than sleeping with her. I think kissing is the superlative form of intimacy. We all are so afraid of that. Don't worry. Be confident. I know you are :)
Good luck, chick!1