What makes a guy use a girl as an ego boost, or a backup girl?

I feel like I have been used as an ego boost from one guy for a year. (I won't go into details) just know he had no intentions.

Another guy I dated for a year with no progress of an actual relationship.

I was young & naive & waited too long with both guys, but my question is why me?

I'd like to think I am attractive or average+. I'm smart. Funny. I like painting, music, I work.

[However these same guys that treated me like crap are now head over heels with other women whom they give everything I wondered why they didn't give me.]

Why them?

Makes me feel unnatractive, and stupid :/



What Guys Said 2

  • Cause you picked a**holes who only wanted you for sex over the nice guys who want relationships with cute girls.


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What Girls Said 1

  • Circumstances and their rotten mind. You were the easy target for them.
    However, you should start seeing through the bullshit.
    Like they say:
    Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.