The guy I like has a kid. Is it too much?

I am 19 years old and I met this guy tht is 23. He asked me out and I said yes but know I looked through his photos and I can see that he ha s asmall kid (maybe around 3 years old) and now I am not sure if I want to date him. Am i being too picky or really is just too much? What would you do?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • if you like him give him a shot, and maybe this child is a friend's or something. However, remember that you will not be priority one on his list. If he is a good father he will always put you second to his child.

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What Guys Said 1

  • That is totally a personal question you can only ask yourself, you are not doing anyone any favours by getting involved if you are not ready for the responsibility of the child though.

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What Girls Said 4

  • Personally, I love kids, so I'd go out with him. Since he just asked you out and you're unsure, why don't you just give him a chance. If you don't feel comfortable, walk away before you get serious.

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  • Be picky. Personally I wouldn't date someone with a kid

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  • He asked you out and didn't tell you that he has a kid?

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    • He did not mention him but in his photos is very obvious that is his kid.

  • For me it would be too much, yes.

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