I rarely ever get asked out and when it does happen, its by some guy who clearly wants to just get it in. Where am I supposed to find someone who is decent and is willing to get to know me as a person and not some sleaze who only pretends to be interested in you so they can get in your pants? Not sure where I'm going wrong. I dont dress provocatively, no cleavage, clothes that fit properly, i dont wear an excessive amount of makeup and the makeup i wear is neutral in color. Like wtf am i doing to attract these kinds of people? It really puts me off from even trying with dating.
Try picking the guy yourself. Find a guy you think might be different and ask him out. Or if you normally reject a certain type of guy (example shy) give him a chance. The shy quiet guy is the one that's likely going to want something real with you.
You're doing nothing wrong, we don't choose the people that are attracted to us. You're just being unlucky. What you should do is not giving up and keep looking and you'll find the man you want. If you act too and approach some guys sometimes, it may help.
I still think it might have something to do with your appearance , even if your not trying to look sexy , you must be doing something that appeals to them. I'm sure it appeals to other guys as well , they just haven't had the nerve to approach you yet , guys with more experience tend to be more open and have an easy time talking to people