I rarely ever get asked out and when it does happen, its by some guy who clearly wants to just get it in. Where am I supposed to find someone who is decent and is willing to get to know me as a person and not some sleaze who only pretends to be interested in you so they can get in your pants? Not sure where I'm going wrong. I dont dress provocatively, no cleavage, clothes that fit properly, i dont wear an excessive amount of makeup and the makeup i wear is neutral in color. Like wtf am i doing to attract these kinds of people? It really puts me off from even trying with dating.
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Try picking the guy yourself. Find a guy you think might be different and ask him out. Or if you normally reject a certain type of guy (example shy) give him a chance. The shy quiet guy is the one that's likely going to want something real with you.0