Women play too many games, its like you can't be a real person around them. If you're not mr ass hole then they don't want you or something I would rather be a guy that cares about them. Anyone else feel the same.
Most Helpful Girl
1- if the woman is playing games, you're either dating young and/or immature girls. Or she is damaged from another gy and is on defense mode. Or she isn't interested in you but she doesn't want to be mean or hurt your feelings so she's nice, and you confuse that nice with "you have a chance". More often than not its the first one or the last one I just listed. The last one is the most common, and men and women both do that.
2. Not all women want assholes. But no woman wants a doormat stage 5 clinger. And it's usually the doormat stage 5 climbers that say women only wnat assholes. If a woman is interested in you, and I mean actually interested, you will know. Don't be the guy who gets friend zoned and hangs onto that rope for dear life hoping that everything nice she says or does means she's actually interested and you're about to escape the friend zone, or that she'll wake up one day and realize she loves you. Don't be the doormat who is available and at her beck and call 100% of the time. Don't let her talk about other men with you, don't be her guy pal. Don't let her push you over or use you. Don't be so relentlessly open for her. If you take everything I just said and applied it to a female, you will understand more of where I'm coming from. No guy wants a girl to be a doormat stage 5 clinger who's always touchy and needy and always forgiving. It comes off as desperate and creepy and no one likes that.
If you are not like any of this, not even with one girl you were burned by, and you just posted this question based off of your experience with one woman, I don't know what to tell you other than obviously one person doesn't represent them all. One asshole doesn't mean all men are assholes. Just that ONE man was an asshole.0
Most Helpful Guy
As to playing those well-known games - I give you one important piece of advice-
I've had many girls play said games with me, but as soon as I confronted them about this, they were suddenly quiet and didn't know what to say !
For example, I had a girl who was 20 too I'd met on Tinder, she'd sent me a "super like", but she told me "she doesn't know whether she has time the next weekend to meet up" -
At age 20, anyone who is sound-minded has the ability to plan that far ahead and is able to set priorities - she was a college student too -
I happen to be a psychology student and I have a book that deals with "critical thinking" and this book teaches you not to believe everything and question everything.
I said to her:
You cannot know whether you have time or no time the next weekend, since you, at age 20, are the sole person responsible for your own time management - I don't feel dependent enough to bow to your dirty mind-games and lies "
She was totally perplexed !!! (I have another story similar to this, but I'll stick to this one)
Girls play these games because they are insecure and inexperienced. A women I am currently dating who happens to be almost 6 years older than me has told me, they play games with me because
"I am too handsome and too sophisticated and too much to handle for them"
At age 31, you should date women around your own age in my opinion and not 20 year old girls who tend to play games a lot...
There is no reason to give up !