I am an 18 yr old girl and just started college.
My persona is sweet, demure, shy, innocent, modest and intellectual. The older guys (anywhere from 25- 50 years old) especially like me, and they like my innocence. Why is this?
Most Helpful Guy
The main reasons why men like that innocent, sweet, girl next door type, is because they tend to be more trustworthy and loyal. No one wants to marry the neighbourhood slut, the one that's fucking 3 dudes in any given time period. Is she really going to be loyal when she is with you, and are you sure it's your kid she's pregnant with? Not to mention the diseases she could bring back home to you, or that she already has. Sweet women also tend to actually care about their husbands, where as the opposite type are self serving, the world revolves around them. What happens if you get sick, or laid off? Is the whore going to be around when shit hits the fan, or would you trust the girl who actually has a heart and loves you? So you have all these good qualities plus you're intelligent and stable, that's perfect wife/mother/relationship material. It also depends on what a man is looking for, to actually settle down, or to experiment and have as much sex as possible. Your the type of woman that appeals to that settled down type of guy.3
Most Helpful Girl
One of 3 things.
They like cute girls.
You are a cute girl.
They are assuming that "innocent" translates to "easily manipulated / influenced".
This applies equally to men who think about casual things only (they might think you'd be easier to "play") and to men who think about more serious relationships/commitments (they might think you'd be more "docile" or "malleable" in terms of yr personality).
Whatever traits they see, they subconsciously put a positive spin on, because... well, because see #1.