No. Mothers are crazy so its not really much of an indicator. Its not like all mothers are saints, why can't he have a so so relationship with his mother (personally my mother was emotionally abusive so my relationship is much less then so so)? His actions are the red flags not his relationship to his mother.
no idea. sometimes i think my relationship with her is good. othertimes i just think she's a weird angry b*tch lol should it raise any red flags? not in my opinion xD not my faullt that my mom is a psycho b*tch! :P (joke lol she isn't a b*tch lol)
dont they say you judge a man on his relationship with his mother?
It depends on why the relationship is so-so of course.
As an example my mother left us when I was young. I went to try and fix things and all she did was laugh. Now do not get me wrong, I actually love my mother and she's a great woman in her own right. But she treated that incredibly poorly and had I been a more easily influenced person I would probably not have forgiven her.
Our relation today is good. We talk about a little more often than I do with my father, which isn't much but certainly something. I have no qualms against women or any scars or emotional baggage because of it.
However if I had not repaired that relation, I would like to think that would not be seen as my fault. I was a kid, she was a grown woman. In all honesty forcing me to be the mature one between us was a poor move on her part. No matter how difficult the meeting must have been.
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It depends. If he doesn't like his mother because she was super strict or she mistreated him, then that's kinda to be expected. But if he absolutely hates his mother for no goddamn reason, then it could be... :)
Not always. Children dont always have a wonderful relationship with their parents for whatever reason. It could be something as little as they dont agree on much/have a lot in common. If it was a terrible relationship like they fight all the time and he is rude to her for no reason it could be something deeper emotionaly. I wouldn't worry about it unless he treated women badly or had low opinions on women.