I dont mean in the sense of a guy who is sensitive.
I mean a guy who has feminine traits. the way he talks , acts , hand gestures (etc).
I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks and as i have been hanging out with him he seems very feminine. he is a straight male from what i know
He acts so soft and sensual. not that it is a bad thing but it is just confusing for me.
He talks like a "female with attitude" sometimes with the hand gestures and the rolling of the neck lol
I like him and the attraction is there. but it just confusing. i dont know if its like a woman trapped in a male body or something but he is so fragile , skinny , and it just makes me wonder
Girls what would you think in a situation as such?
Most Helpful Guy
I used to be a lot like that. Eventually I realized that I'll never reach my full potential as a male until I grew a pair. I still haven't fully but I'm working on it.
He may have low self confidence deep down. I know the reason I acted like that was because I didn't think I was cutthroat enough to act like a man or attractive enough to get away with acting manly.
Another big part of it was my lack of a decent male role model. That's not to say my father wasn't there, but he was kind of a nice guy/beta male/notgoingtogetintoargumentsoverterms. I grew up with my mother being the aggressively dominant figure of the house and thus I had the "in order to get women, I have to think like a woman." You can guess how well that went over. Long story short, none of my female friends at the time respected me.
I honestly pity males who act feminine because I know from my life that sometimes the guy was deceived into thinking that femininity was best, either because his parents taught him that or because he feels that he needs to lay low like that to survive.1
Most Helpful Girl
I know a couple of guys like that, and I've never found myself attracted to one. I also get a bit weirded out by guys like that. Nothing personal, just not for me1