I ask this because for a start, we have never had sex. Been together nearly a year now and he's 8 years older. So, he's 30 and I'm 22. I'm also still a virgin.
there's great chemistry and sexual attraction between us. When we met, I'm pretty sure he wasn't struck on the idea of kids. He knew I wanted them a lot and eventually, he came round to the idea.
So, when things are getting frisky... he'll sometimes say 'let's make a baby' or 'I want to make a baby'. He also likes to kiss and caress me sometimes telling me about how we will move in together, then get married and then he'll get me pregnant and we'll have a baby.
He's also told me he thinks I'll make a great mum and sometimes, he'll jokingly say things like he's going to 'kick me in the ovaries' etc. He also blatantly asked me the other day if I was 'up the duff' because I said I'd put a good few pounds on.
So, yeah, do you genuinely think he wants to be a dad? I'm broody and all, but I'm not sure I want to get pregnant from my first sexual encounter. What do you think?
- Sounds like he does want a baby.30% (6)56% (5)38% (11)Vote
- He's using this as dirty talk.20% (4)22% (2)21% (6)Vote
- The thought of having sex/babies is turning both of you on.35% (7)11% (1)28% (8)Vote
- You both seem pretty broody.10% (2)0% (0)7% (2)Vote
- All of the above.5% (1)11% (1)6% (2)Vote
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totally agree with @truthbeknown , I've used the same lines myself. I mean, in a relationship with a young (probably hot) girl and never tapped that not even once... i'd be beside myself being so horny.
I had a girl that made me wait 8 months because she was a virgin... believe me, if i hadn't promised to be faithful... i would have been plugging everything in skirt during that time period... and what makes it worse was that she always wanted to be handsy or get naked and cuddle... by the time she went home... i was literally in pain down there... ended up rubbing my dick raw after every visit...
so yea... its just a line to get you to have sex. speaking of which... Why haven't you had sex yet?1