I work with this guy and he's the nicest person ever. Never talks down to anyone, greets everyone, he's always in such a good mood. His smile is amazing... there's so many other things I could list. He knows how I feel about him but said he doesn't want a relationship. After he said that I tried ignoring him so I could get over him but we still talk all the time and I still love seeing him almost everyday. I get super jealous when I hear him mention other girls because I want to be the one!!
I thought about making him my friends with benefits just so I can be close to him in some way. I don't want to give up and I don't know when I'll ever get the chance with someone as amazing as him again... would it be worth it?
Most Helpful Guy
Guys who genuinely don't want a relationship are like girls who genuinely don't want sex: they do exist, but they are rare.
It's much more likely that you just haven't managed to persuade him to have a relationship with you. Be smiley, happy, flirty, supportive, interested in his interests, interesting. Give him an appetizer of what a relationship with you could be like. Distinguish yourself from the competition (bear in mind that women's preferences are much less diverse than men's. If you like this man, the chances are that many other women are also after him).0
Most Helpful Girl
Being friends with benefits with a guy you have feelings for is probably THE most stupid thing girls do. Do you think you are suddenly going to stop liking him once you have sex? Girl, the only thing that will happen is you will harder for him and want him even more leaving you with a massive broken heart. At some point you'll have to face the facts and move on. Opting for friends with benefits is just delaying the inevitable.1