Hi everyone I'm going to write a few paragraphs on why I and many other men cannot be bothered with women anymore.

1. Fear of rejection:
Yea this may be a surprise to women men do fear rejection, most guys have experienced this numerous times, our view on females is she can get any man she wants by simply open ones legs.
2. You already have a thousand guys on the go.
Whats the point of chasing somebody if you already know they have half a dozen men at finger tip which could fuck the shit out of them that night.
3. Young and dumb
Most girls usually date the men who fall under the dumb shit category, I was very close to a female who was dating a drop kick who use to get high everyone night and drunk as a skunk... Her response he's misunderstood and has a good personality. Now most girls date a dick head like this until their late 20's and finally realise o wait mum and dad cannot provide for me , I need a man who is secure and with brains and finally someone who treats me right. Now the gentlemen has finished his uni degree and starting to set himself up ( including myself (I have completed a degree in economics and now I am completing a masters in business law) by this time we don't want a female who use to be a community bike. Also another point the girl I was speaking about before has 2 kids and use to get beaten by her boyfriend , now the poor kids don't have a father to raise them and will probaly come to the conclusion that their mum couldn't do it correctly and will probaly treat women like crap which is a shame.
4 Money

while watching a YouTube clip yesterday an a experiement ( sorry bad spelling) was conduct on a mans attractiveness, men whom women would usually consider 8 or higher were given the description of a low income earner, while men who were considered not great looking were given a CEO's income and guess who was given the best looking guy votes? Yep that's right money talks.
Another point I would like to mention is this.
At 19 years of age I lost my dad to Cancer and had to grow up pretty quickly... I use to be a dock worker and get up at 3 am each morning and do hard labouring for 10 hours a day. I then completed a diploma in business and was accepted into an economics degree , finished, now doing a masters in business law. I didn't come from a privilege background and really had to rise and grind. Now another point I would like to mention is that I have had a family friend who was cheated on by his wife and the lying coward lied to a judge and got the house and kids and I'm sure those kids are going to be raised by a hateful parent to disrespect their father.
So why would I want to approach knowing this can happens after all the hard work.

5. Women only under other women

sound correct? Well I just state they do understand each other and they f'ning hate each other.

6 Fear of physical confrontation
Now being in a situation can be difficult, I'm 94kg 5 10 and have 11% body fat, also I use to play 1st grade rugby league. However I never underestimate anybody. What has this gotta do with approaching women? Well we don't know if the huge buff guy next to you is in a relationship? Or if the handsome guy next to you if your boyfriend... Or gay friend or just perhaps a good guy with a good heart?

7 Your on your phone or don't show any signs
How am I suppose to chat to you if your always on your phone or don't even give a look... I remeber being at a club and my friend hooked up with a good looking girl , she was there with her friends... One of her friends said she thought I was hot for a red head ( which I don't accept as a compliment, just like I hear someone say Jeeez she's hot for a black chick? Wtf? Theirs Beatuy in all different looks) not once did she even look at me ( well when I looked i didn't see her respond).

8 I'm not the tall dark and handsome shinning knight.

Now im not physically weak , I can bench 135kg 3 reps and squat 170kg and... Well I guess you get the point. However one thing I have noticed is women generally do not dig guys who have redhair (and to a lesser extent blonde hair men) I have seen fat greasy meatballs with gorgeous looking girls and just think wtf? Now this is section is more personal for me as I am red head, why should I approach women whom I over head say yuck red heads are fuc*^ng disgusting. And seeing red head men get phrases such as should beat your child like a redhead stepson ( but jeez if you say that about someone who's not white , watch the response) also yesterday watching a video yesterday saying she wouldn't have red hair children and if she did they would be up for adoption? Wtf?
Ok here's photos Girls, 8 POINTS WHY I DONT CHASE YOU ANYMORE ?

Anyway way please let me know what you think by leaving a comment below , negative or positive I really do not mind (I know im bound to get nasty personal attacks but that's ok... After all what I said was pretty harsh)


What Girls Said 3

  • I could type a paragraph in response to this, but I really only care about #2.

    I have loads of guy friends, friends. They're great but there's something lacking for my interest. Sometimes it's looks, most of the time it's humor, etc.

    If a guy is scared to pursue me because of that, he's not my type anyway.

    Take a chance. Hell, if I like a guy, I'll tell him. Rejection has only happened once to me, it wasn't that bad.

    • Hey thanks for the response , I've created my own plan to deal with this sort of things in a mental state, however il be honest I find it very hard to approach women because red hair always seems to below the pits and the first thing that comes in mind is that girls can get guys just like that while a guy has to struggle and know she can just leave and find another guy who's 10 times better looking than the original guy that's a good reason why I don't chase cause fear of being replaced by a guy who's more worthy than me... But thanks for your oppion ☺️

    • I'm a little late on a reply to this one.

      1. You're physically attractive and your arms are in great shape [personally love a guy with big arms].

      2. I don't approach men because that's not who I am, so you'd have to come up to me. If you did and you seem like a good person, I'd give you a chance.

      3. Red heads run in my family, so that's just a plus.

      4. I mentioned your physically attractive, so how would it be any different for you to do the same [about finding someone better] if I think you're just as attractive as I am?

      ((Again, sorry for the late response!))

  • Good for you, dude. No one really cares.

  • You should have made this a Take. That is not a question.