I went on two dates with a guy (both ended with a kiss). Communication died out after the second date, which he told me a week later that he wanted to be friends. As an engineer he was busy with work and didn't have time to devote to me. I understood that because he was putting more hours into his work. I asked him if he wanted to actually be friends and hang out or if it was over. He told me that I was fun and would still love to hang out as friends. I misinterpreted a text and felt blown off after this exchange (about an event we had talked about). I overreacted- and apologized both in text and left a voicemail because I realized what I did wrong. Didn't hear from him in over a week. I sent him a text and a funny engineering meme. No response. I understand it may be too soon for a real answer and that I acted in a way I shouldn't have. Even after apologizing I still haven't heard anything. Is he actually interested in being a friend (and needs time and space) or was he too scared to say he wasn't interested?
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Guys rarely ever want to be friends with a girl.
Maybe he sort of meant it at the time.. but i think you scared him away. Trying to hard to apologize/get ahold of him. So shortly after a date didn't go well. I could see him worried that you were to into him and he wanted to end it now.0