Ah the bad boy liking syndrome. Happens to most humans that love the forbidden fruit. I am one ask me lol.
Most important part of a relationship is DON'T try to change your partner. Accept them as they are. A relationship is about 2 people loving and liking each other as they are. They aren't objects to be acquired and molded according to our prerequisites :)
You can put in all the time you want, but if something isn't what nature has granted him, you'll wind up cursing him and yourself :)
You can't make anyone change except for yourself.
Don't waste time on someone who won't or can't reciprocate. Better by far to find someone else who does not need convincing in order to be willing to be in a relationship with you.
A good match is priceless.
One half of a good match is no match at all.
1. You won't change him. If he's not ready then he's not ready.
2. Don't have sex with him. Stop making out with him, don't call him, dont text him. Let him chase you. People always want what they can't have.
3. Read the book "why men love bitches". It's a great book about being your own woman and not worrying about what guys think and how this actually makes you more attractive to him
4. Forget him and find someone else and I bet he'll suddenly want you back.
You really can't, my first boyfriend did a lot of casual relationships and I really wanted to change him, I saw him weekly for about 5 months and grew feelings naturally I just wanted him to be my boyfriend and I told him we were in a relationship and he went with it LOL I guess the feelings were mutual, however he cheated on me the last year of our relationship.
You will never make anyone change. They can only change for themselves. You're wasting your time. Don't get sucked in. Move along. If you want to have fun then go for it. Just don't get emotionally invested in it.
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You can't.
With some they just dont want to settle down no matter how great the girl is. They are in a phase where they just want to sleep with as many girls as possible and aren't open to relationships until they are out of that phase. So in this case you would have to be lucky enough to have met him during his looking for a relationship phase.
There are some guys who are just hooking up until they meet a girl worth settling down with and will stop fucking around if they meet that girl. However once again you dont really have any control over this. Either he sees you as the type of girl he wants to settle down with or he doesn't. You can't "make" him want something he doesn't want.
Take it from me. I had the same mindset when I was seeing this guy, last October. He was an identical type of person, and when he went on his tour for work, he cheated because he could.
These guys are too unwilling to change. You are better off finding a man who cares for you and will treat you well.
He needs to know your "rules" and what he gets out of playing house, that's all.
Such a guy you describe wants a free ride on your career
all the sex you can give at snap of fingers
freedom to screw gals on the outside when you're too busy or working to pay bills
no hassle/contact with family/friends who may take your side
nothing but praise from you and worship of his little head
no long term commitments formally, just oral agreements
Its a fantasy that girls have to try and change the badboy. They think he will change for them and they like the challenge. It is unlikely to happen and you will waste your time. He isn't going to change for you.
You can't. You chose a fuckboy and are attracted to him BECAUSE he's a douche.
If you change him such that he's not a douche anymore, you won't like him. But you can't anyway, because it's not in his nature. He knows your nature.
you can not change him, he has to want to change but at this time i dont think he will because he is having to much fun being a douche bag. sleeping with him will not change what he is
You can't. You can't force a person to change. They have to want to change and be willing to put the work in themselves.
Don't bother. He will grow up when he's ready to and not a moment before. You can't change a person and trying to will only get you hurt.
Ask him for hookup with other girls. If he agrees then he can't be changed if he loves to hook up with you then he is in love with you..
His mentality can be changed by love and caring , only if you will do it well.
I've put myself in a situation like this before. You can't change a fuckboy. I wouldn't waste your time trying to.
YOU CAN'T CHANGE A MAN. HE WON'T CHANGE FOR YOU. STOP. YOU'RE WASTING YOUR OWN TIME AND HIS. YOU CAN'T MAKE HIM WANT YOU.
First, stop referring to him as a 'fuckboy' and a 'douchebag'.
You can't make someone ready for something they're not just because you are.
Talk to him about what your feeling and If he wants he same.
I think this is going to be a train wreck just waiting to happen...
You might have to wait until he's in his 30s. He may have several STDs by then though.
You can't. Trying to do that will only leave to heartache.
you will need a witch to cast a spell on him... You can not really change a person if they dont want to change
You can't. Only those "fuckboys" can want to be in a relationship. From my personal knowledge, they don't (want to be in one).
You can kill all the other women on the planet.
Otherwise, he'd rather sleep with lots of women, then one woman.
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