Guys how do you feel when you waste time, emotional investment and money on a girl only for her to go NC (stop talking to you or never follow up), or hit you with the "There just wasn't any chemistry" line?
Girl's question: How do you feel when a guy has wasted so much time on you but you've already made up in back of your mind that your just not that into him?
Firstly this has happened to me many times with guys too. We'd date and then after a few weeks or months he'd say he's just not that into me. In fact with my last "ex" we went back and forth for 7 months and he just played me. Anyways, it's not a good feeling and I don't lead anyone. While I do believe it's normal to require 1-2 dates in order to get to know someone and establish that there's compatibility, I wouldn't go beyond that.
Well... bummer but then again I can't blame her for that. Not her fault she just wasn't attracted.
No one has ever said it to me, but I've said to more than one woman when it was clear it was true.
"Girl's question: How do you feel when a guy has wasted so much time on you but you've already made up in back of your mind that your just not that into him?"
Do you really think the girl hasn't wasted time too? I don't know about other people using the line, but as a guy it meant that WE both just weren't that into each other... and yes, in one case the woman disagreed (it didn't stop it being true though and she was banging a guy that did become her boyfriend within days of the breakup)