Option A? Perhaps? He would need to understand that I'm not a virgin lol and if he can accept that that will be cool. I would be concerned if his waiting till marriage or just want to give himself to someone who he thinks deserve him (sexually).
I don't have an issue with Option B, but him having sex with 10 or more people sounds daunting.. Like that thought would always linger in the back of my head, and I would feel like if I was in a relationship with him, would I measure up to his sexual standards?
women don't obsess over number of sexual partners like men do, it's just odd and creepy why ould you care? As long as the person is 100% std free it makes no difference. Someone could have had safe sex with 20 people and have never had an std, another person could have had unprotected sex just once and could have several stds.
Either or neither. Their sexual past doesn't mean anything to me (barring the obvious need-to-knows like diseases or kids) it's who they are that matter. If they're decent blokes who I find attractive then either. If they're total asshats then neither. Lol!
Those things wouldn't make me automatically say no to him. I would be tepid to date someone who had slept with many women. But 10 isn't crazy, it's just not how I go about sleeping with people. And when it comes to being a virgin, I wouldn't count him out either, if that was his choice, his choice.
I wouldn't date a 30 year old right now, I think I'm probably too young for that buuuut hypothetically i would give either of those guys a chance. Being a virgin isn't a bad thing and 10 people isn't that many, so either are fine 😊
I prefer A. Just like guys, woman don't want a guy that's been around the block a lot. That comes across as dirty to me and shows me he lacks the kind of morals that I have. I knew a guy who was a virgin at my work and he was so sexy to me. Realistically though as long as his number isn't crazy and he isn't the type to just have one nighters I'm good with that.
I've dated a virgin and also dated a man who slept with more than 50 women. (He was a handsome bartender). It REALLY depends on the guy and not the number of people he has slept with. It also depends on you - is sex an important part of dating for you or can you wait until marriage? Again, the number has nothing to do with it. It's all about how the man treats you.
I would date the 30 year old guy who is a virgin by choice. Virginity is not off-putting per say.
Men who are not virgins by choice tend to have low self-esteem, they're unconfident, they're bitter… No thanks.
I am a lady (age 29) who only dates older men. In the scenario given, I would give either man a chance, provided that there was mutual attraction. A man who is 30+ and a virgin could be interesting. That's not very common nowadays but I wouldn't steer away from a man just because of his virginity status. If anything it would mean that I could teach him and if I was the first woman for him to be with, I could teach him how to please me the right away. He would have no other women's preferences to go off of and so he wouldn't assume that just because an ex or several exes liked something that I will like it, too. On the other end of the spectrum, a dude with more sexual experience isn't automatically a bad thing. It could mean that he is an expert at pleasure. What matters to me the most is a man who will be honest, kind, caring, and faithful to me. Whichever of the two who would be willing to fill that bill would have a better chance with me.