So I'm madly in love with a guy in my school, he's soo handsome. I really couldn't just keep silent I had to say to him. He's 27 years old and I'm 23. He's pretty popular in my school. After his graduation he came previous school often to visit his old friends. I came to him, my heart was pounding like crazy and asked him he would go out with me while he was talking to his couple of friends. His question was: "Are you a feminist?". I didn't understand why he would ask such offtopic question but I answered Yes. He then said "No thanks" and turned his head off and talked with his friends further. I felt like my heart and stomach was aching and I just stood still there while he and his friends went away. I was soo sad and crying not only because I couldn't see him because he graduated and would move to Kansas, but also because he just turned his head away because I'm a feminist.
It's really frustrating, I was crying whole day long in my room I couldn't even communicate with my parents for like a week. However, one day my neighborfriend told me he left a fb message that the reason why he disliks feminists is because according to him, feminists are spoiled brats brainwashed by evil society just like capitalists, communists, bolchevists.
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Guys don't, douchebags do. I know it's hard for you to hear and it really hurts, but if he rejects you for being a feminist then he is Wrong.
From his explanation it doesn't sound like he knows much about politics tbh. That doesn't make him a bad person necessarily.
But treating you that way? That cold rejection with no further explanation? Douchebag alert.0
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