Yeah, I know the rules of don't text a guy ever. Also, the whole 3 day no texting rule. Personally, I don't like the games. I like to be straight up honest and move on if it doesn't work out.
Here's the story. We hung out on the weekend. Had a great time. I was calm- didn't show I liked him too much even though I thought he was absolutely gorgeous. He didn't try to kiss me or have sex. He hinted but never did anything. Kept saying when he comes to my city I have to show him this or that. That he has to finish his building his business first. He grows marijuana. I'm like are you sure you're coming? He said he's a man of his word. So when it was my time to drive home to my city- i hugged him. He texted me 44 minutes later saying that he enjoyed hanging out with me and that hopefully he will come to my city soon because he wants to spend more time and get to know me better because he really likes me. I told him I would like to get to know him better too. DID NOT say I liked him back. Monday and Tuesday he texted me once a day. Making sure I'm safe home and that I'm getting sleep since I drove so far. Note: I'm not the one initiating text. I simply just reply to them. He kept saying he can't wait to come see me soon. I told him I'll believe it when I see it. He also said he was going to be crazy busy the next to days before he drives MY STATE border. Wednesday, Thursday and then Today I have not heard from him. I want to text him so I can just stop worrying about this. If he tells me he's not interested cool i'll move on. But he told me he liked me and said he is coming out to see me. Why put in the extra effort if you're not interested? When he talks to me he's very open about his past and that he has anxiety and low self esteem. He smokes and drinks a lot. If you have those, why are you playing me then? At this point I'm worried/angry/ annoyed. He hasn't been on any social media pages of his in days either. I just want to know the truth. What should I text him?
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You should tell him how you feel^^ um. In a nutshell. You think he's gorgeous. Tell him what you think & It would mean a lot to initiate a text every so often. Show him and tell him how much you care
Now, I have to say that I feel that the dating world isn't actually about dating. I feel that it should be based on a developing connection rather then where you decide to go on that first date, you know. We shouldn't see the dating/relationship world as a game to play, thats when things don't work. That's where the lies start. If you don't like the games that television and social media has set up for you, then don't play them^^I don't. I feel there is nothing wrong with being straight up honest as long as your considering their feelings and treating people the way you would want to be treated.
As far as marijuana and drinking go, I've never tried them.
Please be careful and aware of what you could Possibly be getting yourself into~0
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