I'm 26 years old and apparently I am an unattractive woman. I have been called horrendus by men and get blocked just for showing them a picture of my face :(
I never get approached and am never asked out. Men feel it is okay to use me. When I put the brakes on the using, then they get violent or upset. I'm worried I'll never have the opportunity to get married or have a family (both of which I really do want).
I'm a nice person, very understanding, caring, I have a ton of good qualities. I have been told I'm attractive. But it seems to be only a select few who feel that way and they either live too far away or are already attached to someone.
I'm trying really hard to meet people but I end up having to put in all the effort. Which I don't think is fair.
The only one who seems to want to be with me is my abusive ex boyfriend. But I don't want to go back to him.
Most Helpful Guy
Be an interesting and funny woman. Use ideas, words to express them, tell jokes. Every woman becomes attractive when a man gets interested.0
Most Helpful Girl
I am in a similar situation except no man wants any sort of relation with me they mock me upon sight. I have decided to give celibacy a try for some time (not like i really have a choice), if I like it then it will be permanent, maybe you should try it too.
Keep your mind focused on other things like progressing in your career, learning a new skill, go for long walks in the morning etc. Just keep your mind off this and over time you might learn to be satisfied with being single (from what I am experiencing it gets easy with time). Stay strong your worth is based off more than just looks.0