Okay, this all has to do with getting know someone.
In my dating experience if the guy is interested he makes the first approach, and we begin to talk and he usually leads the conversations in getting to know me.
I have noticed one Major repeated con in my approach with men I'm interested in is that I notice it never leads anywhere. Maybe they arnt interested in me? But what I've noticed is through online dating (especially) I'll introduce myself and start to ask questions but they never ask me questions about myself back, and it dies out and I just leave it alone altogether. Do I tell them about myself voluntarily? I feel like this role of approach as a female isn't beneficiary in relationships as the guy in speaking isn't eager to ask myself leading questions to know more about me.
Are there any girls out there who have taken leading roles in conversations and getting to know someone, has what happenes to me gotten you less or more relationships? Have you ever experienced this?
I understand the gender roles and we scream for equality, but as I try and do those things in first approach it doesn't get me committed relationships, but I'm sharing my personal experiences.
Men how do you feel?
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If you are talking to guys and they don't respond with something to continue the conversation then you are wasting your time.
And most guys will think that if you volunteer your life story you are just full of yourself and they will do the same thing and want to just sleep with you.2
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