I agree with what that girl said. Find someone who is intelligent. Everyone likes the occasional party. But we all have bills to pay and responsibilities (as boring as it may sound), and most people can't be out drinking or partying most nights of the week like they did in their early twenties. It's fine to stay at home, watch some Netflix, and to avoid/limit the alcohol, so you are not dealing with a hangover the next day. it's called maturity!.
Most People think drinking and doing drugs is the only way to have fun and experience life and it's not. you don't need drugs and booze to have fun at all. There are a lot of mature women in the world.
People like drinking and partying to let loose. I am 20, a college student with a stressful life during the week full of studying and other stuff like that. It's fun to put your worries to the side for a night and have fun with your friends. It's not true that it always leads to lies and cheating. Sure, more people are irresponsible when it comes to partying/drinking than others, but it depends on the person. Just because you drink and party does not mean you are immature.
People are into drinking and partying because they enjoy it. Neither of these things is responsible for lies and cheating. The person telling the lies or doing the cheating is responsible. A mature woman can go out, drink, and party, without sacrificing her maturity.
Yes. I love to drink with family 'n' maybe a very small group of friends on special occasions. Or just one bottle by myself. But that's about it. I've only been to 2 parties so far. Normally I don't go out drinking 'n' partying. So yes, there are mature women out there who don't go out get trashed, wasted, nor ending up in bed with a bunch of guys.
Because it eliminates the anxiety and allows you to have a good time with people you don't know. Sometimes it turns out well but most of the time you wake up regretting most of what you said/did the night before.
Yes. Now please value my opinion because though I am significantly younger than you, doesn't mean I don't know anything about this world.
But I am also like you, I don't find any enjoyment in the thought of drinking or partying (I've never done either). But what I know for certain is that there is always people out there with similar beliefs, and really those are the best people to be with because like you said that sort of life style almost always leads to lying and cheating.
But because of this you know what you want, and don't settle for much less. Make it clear to anyone who you may be interested how you feel about these sorts of things, and if they can't accept and value your opinion then they aren't good enough for you.
Best of luck, hope you found something I said useful.
Parties are a type of social gathering place, mainly designed for people to hook up. There are other social gathering places, but are not designed for hooking up, even though it can happen, i. e college clubs, work, school, family gatherings where non-relatives are invited, weddings, funerals, etc.