I'm a black 21 yr old woman and I'm currently into my black guy friend. He's sweet, kind, intelligent and business savvy. He looks out for me and checks up on me. He'd be a fun and wonderful husband I'm sure, but I just can't see myself with a black guy in the future. I dated one white guy and I was very much in love with him. I don't want him back but I feel stuck on white guys now. Is there anyone who understands? Why can't I just look past race?
Most Helpful Guy
It's because white guys are at the top of the racial hierarchy. Girls of all races are highly attracted to them the most.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't understand why people are acting a certain way. I've seen other questions like this and majority of the opinions were positive. I think it's fine as long as you don't think of black men as dirty or inferior. It should be purely about appearance (because we obviously don't look anything like white people) since claiming that whites are different from blacks in a behavioral sense is racist. I also don't get personally offended by 'preferences' as long as they aren't for a non appearance reason.0