A guy came in to my work and started flirting with me. It became quickly apparent that we had good initial conversational chemistry when we chatted for ten minutes or so during my shift.
He came to visit me again at work and I had fun talking with him. He asked me if I'd like to get a coffee with him and I said no.
He's funny, interesting, charming and confident from what I can tell but he's ugly.
I want to say yes because I think that we'd have fun on a date but I can't get past the fact that he isn't a good looking guy at all.
What should I do? Perhaps other girls out there might be able to tell me what they'd do in this situation. :)
Here's a picture.
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think he is but everyone has their own opinion. I wouldn't ignore this if I were you. Physical attraction is important to. You need both physical and emotional. Be friends if you want but don't lead him on, tell him that's your only interest and there's nothing romantic between you. I seen a post here the other day from a married woman that liked her husband but never ever found him attractive but married him anyway because he was a good guy and "thought she'd become attracted to him" I couldn't believe this? Really? And now she wants to leave him because she thinks he's ugly and hates being with him now. Poor guy. Don't do this!!0
Most Helpful Girl
Are you interested in going out with a guy and having a good time and enjoying yourself or are you concerned about what other people think. Are you so self-centered that you will not enjoy yourself because you wouldn't be cool? You are 28 years old you sound like an 18-year-old girl. Haven't you outgrown that crap?2