So i have the opportunity to move to a new town for work. I've been talking lots to a guy online who lives there. We have met up once, things seemed great, but i live about 20 hours away and he said he didn't want to become attached because of 'the distance'. (I don't know if this is true, or an excuse though). I will admit that i have been applying for jobs in his town because i can't just walk away from the amazing connection i have with this guy. I am prepared to do this to satisfy the part of my mind that says "what if?". At the moment this guy and I are not really talking anymore as it got too hard and seemed hopeless. I don't think i can tell him that i am living in his town once i move there, because i am afraid he will freak out, thinking it makes me seem too keen and/or clingy and/or a stalker. What should i do?
Will he think I'm a stalker? How do I tell him I've moved to his town?
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I wouldn't tell him neither
Especially since the self admittance of looking for work in his hometown
Ya didn't find that a bit extreme without discussing the dynamics of your relo before ya quit communication?
I'll be honest with ya, in my personal opinion, I do believe this is kinda stalkerish behaviour.
I definitely would not tell him
He might shit
Unless he wants something with you
Then maybe ya can make it work
Which in that case you would have to communicate with him.1
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