I have always wondered can big people find love as well I have always thought they couldn't but that may only be because of the area I live in with a lot of people being so judmental of looks but is it different in other places of the world?
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, they can. If they've got a good sense of humor and if they are decent human-beings. However, why don't you try working on losing weight?0
Most Helpful Guy
I am fat, but not American sized fat- just Asian size.
The thing is, fat people can get a bit of a low self confidence and self worth since they overthink things, or they got bullied on.
Yes, girls will talk to guys with abs, with those lovely curls - but they key there is confidence and humor.
Know when to talk, and know how to hold out a conversation. Stop thinking, I am big, I am not worthy - just plain simple talking. Be a gentleman but know how to stand ground. Have a principle you believe in.
And more importantly, see yourself as a human. Love what you are, who you are. Confidence comes from within you.0