Don't mean to sound one-sided and I know both genders have disadvantages in life but I think when it comes to time and commitment, we get affected more and have more to lose if not choosing carefully. For instance it's already hard (but not impossible) finding a man that wants to commit. If all we wanted was dating around and easy sex, that's easy but some of us don't want that.
If we do the whole living together as couple (I never done that and will never do it) while never talking about where this is leading or believing it will lead somewhere one day, the man can spend years of our time and then more than likely that relationship won't last. Then he walks away and we have to start all over. Still, those are years we'll never get back and there is a limited time for us to form a family.
Also, if not choosing right or thinking we had the right person and still get pregnant (assuming the woman decided to keep the baby), the guy can bail out if he's a total a jerk.
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Yes, it's risky but it's riskier never getting into a committed relationship. The key is to have a ring on your finger because until you are married he can walk away. My father always told me never truth a man who isn't your husband because he isn't yours yet. With that it implied don't live with another man, and even sustain for sex if you can because then they will want to commit to higher levels like marriage sooner. But love is a risk in general, run from it and you may be screwing yourself of happiness, being heart broken sucks but it's not the end of the world :)0