I'm just wondering if guys actually have feelings or get feelings for someone because almost every guy I've met only wants sex, nothing else. I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. So I don't know if guys actually do get feelings or just want hookups and stuff for fun? Tbh I think I'm probably gonna be single forever because I don't think a guy would ever like me (idk why I'm nice friendly, loyal, fun... etc) and because most guys seem to not have feelings and only want one thing
Most Helpful Guy
Nope. Guys don't have feelings. You know that saying "Men are from mars, women are from Venus." ? That's actually true, though the government has spent billions trying to cover it up. Men and women are actually aliens from separate planets. Women evolved to have emotions, and men evolved to rape women.
It's all in the history books. Don't be misled by husbands giving their lives protecting their wives. They're only doing it because they have determined that should they let their wife die, they will no longer be able to get other pussy. Do not be misled by boyfriends dying to protect girlfriends from some crazed psychopath who goes on a shooting spree. They are simply protecting their property. It doesn't mean they actually care about the women.
Also, seriously though, guys namely care about attractiveness. Don't project your sexual preferences onto them. That's like guys sending you dick pics. And honestly, it's just as disgusting. If there is no attraction, there is no reason to pursue anything. This is in contrast to women who are much more conceptual about how willing a guy might be to die for them or how much ambition or confidence he has, or how much he could possibly entertain her. Women can more readily sacrifice physical attraction for other attributes. Men, in the majority of circumstances, will not.
Yes. We do have feelings. We have relatively the same feelings. However, we have different instinctual sexual goals. In addition, sex is high risk to women. It is low risk to men.15
Most Helpful Girl
Of course they do, but here's the thing: sexual desire is a feeling. Is it perhaps less emotional at times? Yes. But it is very human. Sure I get it, I hate guys just wanting to fuck and run too, but that doesn't mean they are unemotional, it means that they are a little immature and are running with the most easily identifiable feelings.
You just need to find the right guy and be upfront with the guys that try to approach you boner first; you'd be amazed at the guys that'll run when you say no and the ones who stay even when you say no. So chin up.2