I've just seen this. The guy really liked the girl but she kind of has a deep disbelief that NOBODY loves her and generally has a major problem of pushing the ones she loves away. But after a few times of pushing the guy away (even though she gave off a few hints she liked him back), he disappeared & we actually never heard from him again.. Now, it could be her bad that she "pushed" him away or that he actually doesn't deserve her because he should've stood by her and not easily give up on her. So it made me wonder what would you guys do?
All the people I know, both male and female, are worth my time and effort. I stick by them for as long as I possibly can, no matter what happens. These are friends, though.
When it comes to possible dating, things become a little different. Pushing a guy away for the reasons you state has the same effect as a girl that plays hard to get. Play hard to get for too long, and the guy gets pissed off and goes away. Friendship is not possible, as the guy hoped for more. He goes off to find someone else. It's no good hanging around for too long in the vague hope that love will blossom. The guy could spend a life time waiting for nothing.
I'm in a similar situation. Do I hang around, wait, and hope? Do I cut my losses and move on?
It's her bad that she pushed him away. You girls keep whining here that some guys just dont go away when you ask them to.. shame them as creeps and stalkers. You are telling him that you dont want him.. so he left. How the fuck is this the guy's mistake? You should have told him that you need him.